He who plays out of necessity loses out of obligation

Lately I have been playing with the obligation to earn something, in my country the situation is difficult, the payment of work is not enough for anything. My mother’s birthday is tomorrow and I have been somewhat pressured to win and you know what? I do not gain anything that’s where I start to think and the saying is true He who plays out of necessity loses out of obligation, when you win a tournament at once you win another and even another, that is, when you don’t need it, it always comes to you, it’s something ironic